"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deceiving women with your looks Part II

DJnoob

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Isnt is it weird when you look at someone and expect this person to be like this but when you meet and talk to this person, this person is completely different from what you perceived him to be?

What do you guys think?

Lets say, you saw a mean looking person who looks like a serial killer, bad ass, but when you actually talk to this person, you find out that this person is actually nice and stuff.

Whats your take on this?

Is this the kinda of person women fall for?

You know anyone like this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJnoob

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Yeah, i know looks can be deceiving,but what im trying to say is this. Whats your reaction after finding out who this person really is after talking to them? Apply this to anyone you;ve met in the past.. both male and female
 

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Your nick name made me think you were an idiot. I was right.

Ninja Out
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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One of the toughest things to overcome is to not pre-judge anyone....especially based on their appearance.

We're all guilty of this, and for me personally, i'm really trying to stop doing it...... It's a sign of insecurity and immaturity.

I'm at my best when I feel alot of compassion for everyone around me, regardless of their race, social class, appearance..etc.

It's definitely a challenge to accept everyone as they are and judge them based on their personalities, only..... and only after I've had a chance to get to know them.

It's easy to spot Ass holes but some people just give off a bad vibe, unintentionally... once you get to know them, you realize that they are wicked-cool people.

Just try and keep an open mind
 
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