"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Deceiving women with your looks Part II

DJnoob

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Isnt is it weird when you look at someone and expect this person to be like this but when you meet and talk to this person, this person is completely different from what you perceived him to be?

What do you guys think?

Lets say, you saw a mean looking person who looks like a serial killer, bad ass, but when you actually talk to this person, you find out that this person is actually nice and stuff.

Whats your take on this?

Is this the kinda of person women fall for?

You know anyone like this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJnoob

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Yeah, i know looks can be deceiving,but what im trying to say is this. Whats your reaction after finding out who this person really is after talking to them? Apply this to anyone you;ve met in the past.. both male and female
 

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Your nick name made me think you were an idiot. I was right.

Ninja Out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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One of the toughest things to overcome is to not pre-judge anyone....especially based on their appearance.

We're all guilty of this, and for me personally, i'm really trying to stop doing it...... It's a sign of insecurity and immaturity.

I'm at my best when I feel alot of compassion for everyone around me, regardless of their race, social class, appearance..etc.

It's definitely a challenge to accept everyone as they are and judge them based on their personalities, only..... and only after I've had a chance to get to know them.

It's easy to spot Ass holes but some people just give off a bad vibe, unintentionally... once you get to know them, you realize that they are wicked-cool people.

Just try and keep an open mind
 
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