"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Decades of Experience All In One Post

Stinky Boots

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good stuff but...

:rockon:
great stuff,my boots are much less stinky...however I think u guys get sot of dehumanised after all that:wave: please realise its not there intention,they were 'born this way'.Otherwise,just joined and thought it would be great if someone replied.Above all...Where the **** did Pook go???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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3agle 3yes

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Inspector Clouseau said:
MYTH: Find one woman you like who likes you, and stick with her through thick and thin.

TRUTH: This is the biggest mistake I ever made. I used to be loyal to whomever I was with, even when someone better came along...
What exactly is "better" in this context?

Her looks? It is impossible to know if a woman is "better" until you've spent adequate time with her.
 

Oxide

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3agle 3yes said:
What exactly is "better" in this context?

Her looks? It is impossible to know if a woman is "better" until you've spent adequate time with her.
Looks is a start
Personality
Compatibility
etc.

He could have spent time with her, coworkers, friends, acquaintances..
 

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Bro, It took me 3 Days to read this post... I had to re-read the paragraph where he dump her because of xyz... love it. thanks for sharing.
 

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On that part:
Boring, nerdy guys who were dog meat at 15 can be studs at 35.
[This message has been edited by Inspector Clouseau (edited 06-05-2002).]
So all I am destined to are leftover roasties hungry for cash. ****ing great, might as well just quit while I'm at it. Or go full Breivik since it's all that's actually worth doing nowadays.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The original post from June 2002 holds up very well when reading it in February 2024. I don't think the post was written in 2002. The poster in 2002 was quoting R. Don Steele who wrote something before 2002. It's unknown when R. Don Steele wrote this, but it likely covers the era of the 1960s-1990s.

I think looks matter more now than when R. Don Steele wrote what was written.
 
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