"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stinky Boots

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good stuff but...

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great stuff,my boots are much less stinky...however I think u guys get sot of dehumanised after all that:wave: please realise its not there intention,they were 'born this way'.Otherwise,just joined and thought it would be great if someone replied.Above all...Where the **** did Pook go???
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Inspector Clouseau said:
MYTH: Find one woman you like who likes you, and stick with her through thick and thin.

TRUTH: This is the biggest mistake I ever made. I used to be loyal to whomever I was with, even when someone better came along...
What exactly is "better" in this context?

Her looks? It is impossible to know if a woman is "better" until you've spent adequate time with her.
 

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3agle 3yes said:
What exactly is "better" in this context?

Her looks? It is impossible to know if a woman is "better" until you've spent adequate time with her.
Looks is a start
Personality
Compatibility
etc.

He could have spent time with her, coworkers, friends, acquaintances..
 

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Bro, It took me 3 Days to read this post... I had to re-read the paragraph where he dump her because of xyz... love it. thanks for sharing.
 

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On that part:
Boring, nerdy guys who were dog meat at 15 can be studs at 35.
[This message has been edited by Inspector Clouseau (edited 06-05-2002).]
So all I am destined to are leftover roasties hungry for cash. ****ing great, might as well just quit while I'm at it. Or go full Breivik since it's all that's actually worth doing nowadays.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The original post from June 2002 holds up very well when reading it in February 2024. I don't think the post was written in 2002. The poster in 2002 was quoting R. Don Steele who wrote something before 2002. It's unknown when R. Don Steele wrote this, but it likely covers the era of the 1960s-1990s.

I think looks matter more now than when R. Don Steele wrote what was written.
 
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