"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I know it's not that big of a deal when it comes to credit.

It can be, depending upon how much you need credit.

You will get a judgment on your credit report. That will drop your score. Also, you probably won't be able to get a mortgage or major financing until the judgment is paid. You can tack on an explanatory paragraph if you like to your credit report that will become part of the report, but that is probably a waste of time. When I brokered mortgages, "no liens, no judgments" was a rule for every loan I did. I imagine there are loans that are possible to get if you have a judgment, but at least with mortgages it would be a 'hard money' lender who requires a big down payment and gives you a crappy interest rate.

If you do nothing, seven years after it hits, the judgment will drop off your credit. Sometimes you have to write and request it, but you always have the option of waiting it out. You still owe the money, but it will not longer be reflected on your credit score. If you re-negotiate a payment plan during that seven years, the clock starts over.

Bankruptcy is a realistic option, not that I am recommending it, but the debt would go away if you don't have many assets, and you could have decent credit again in just a couple of years. If you are making money and show good debt to income ratios, someone will want to loan you money. It is a competitive market.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have no plans on doing bankruptcy over $600. This is an issue of principle.

I don't really think it's that big of a deal. If I'm paying car loans fine, but I have a petty $600 dispute with a cable company, I don't think it's a big deal.

I have no plans on getting a major loan or mortgage for a while(5+ years). I can see giving out mortgages in the states being tough, since the housing market is in a dive. It's still pretty hot in Canada, and if I defaulted on a mortgage the bank would make a clean $20k-50k profit when they foreclose my house.

I think what I'm going to do is file disputes over it until it's removed from my record. I've yet to see an ounce of proof on why I owe this much. I do agree I owe the modem, but that other crap. No way.
 

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Well this is all talk for the time being.. Once get chatting with those debt collectors, you'll find out they are not interested in finding out what you did or what happened, they'll ask to fax them a prove.. If you can't, they'll keep calling..

Heed my advice, tell them to stop calling you..

Once they have been notified that they should stop calling you for collection, they must do so.. When that happens, the only option they have is to sue you if they are to collect on you.. Otherwise they file you away and sell your case to someone else.. (then you go through same routine with someone else)

Thus, the only time you get to speak your case if they take you to court..


The other thing you could do is talk to your cable company, instead of debt collectors.. Just make sure you document everything so you have something to show debt collectors..



The most important thing I learned from my past blunders is that you have to stay on top of these things. Never let them go away, because they never do go away.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phyzzle said:
Yeah, a life of debt collection is a life of animated perversion . . . what?
omg, hahaha. I just realized that i posted this in the wrong thread LOL. I meant it to be in the DBZ fan one.
 
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