"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Dealing with "this" girl

WesCottII

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2004
Messages
1,349
Reaction score
11
Location
Nottingham
Hey guys,

A while ago, before I knew about "all things DJ" I was going through my Jerk phase, I knew this girl. Wasn't interested in her sexually at all, and we didn't get on, always falling out. Now, 2 years later....she STILL bears a grudge about it, keeps popping up from time to time to "remind" me what a failure I am :crazy:

We have a mutual friend who tells her all the stuff I do, and she makes it her mission, to make sure everyone knows what "kind of guy" I am. She popped up on msn last night claiming that I was making friends up and that she won't leave me alone until I admit that I'm a bad person. Naturally I refused, but I don't much fancy her invading all my "circles" starting rumours.

Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Zazenth

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 28, 2007
Messages
20
Reaction score
0
Haha!

Welcome to life. You know what my friends would say about this: “This girl needs a good F-ucking”.
And they have a point. Prove to her you’ve changed. Don’t fight back. Don’t avoid her. DJ her. Show her what your made of, then she sing praises of you.
 

Faraday

New Member
Joined
Aug 17, 2007
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Well she is psico. What I would do if in your place is telling "yes, you know what, I'm a bad person, happy?. I'm the most horrible person on earth, and I deserve death and hell, ok?".

She is just a poor little girl who is obsessed with you, don't pay attention to her.
 

L B

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2004
Messages
526
Reaction score
9
Location
OC
Sounds like she made it her personal mission in life to ruin you. You can A: ignore her and she might go away. Or B: confront her and address the issue. And it does sound like she needs to get laid; you might want to give that some thought.

On a serious note, once the issue is resolved, you need to steer clear of the vengeful one.
 

The Sperminator

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2007
Messages
490
Reaction score
2
What you got to do is tell her that you are a changed man. Tell her that you were a bad person back then and ask her to forgive you. Then tell her you want to make it up to her by taking her out some where nice. Take her out act nice to her then bring her back to your place and have sex with her then tell her to get the **** out when your done and never talk to her again haha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Top