Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dealing with "this" girl

WesCottII

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Hey guys,

A while ago, before I knew about "all things DJ" I was going through my Jerk phase, I knew this girl. Wasn't interested in her sexually at all, and we didn't get on, always falling out. Now, 2 years later....she STILL bears a grudge about it, keeps popping up from time to time to "remind" me what a failure I am :crazy:

We have a mutual friend who tells her all the stuff I do, and she makes it her mission, to make sure everyone knows what "kind of guy" I am. She popped up on msn last night claiming that I was making friends up and that she won't leave me alone until I admit that I'm a bad person. Naturally I refused, but I don't much fancy her invading all my "circles" starting rumours.

Any suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zazenth

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Haha!

Welcome to life. You know what my friends would say about this: “This girl needs a good F-ucking”.
And they have a point. Prove to her you’ve changed. Don’t fight back. Don’t avoid her. DJ her. Show her what your made of, then she sing praises of you.
 

Faraday

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Well she is psico. What I would do if in your place is telling "yes, you know what, I'm a bad person, happy?. I'm the most horrible person on earth, and I deserve death and hell, ok?".

She is just a poor little girl who is obsessed with you, don't pay attention to her.
 

L B

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Sounds like she made it her personal mission in life to ruin you. You can A: ignore her and she might go away. Or B: confront her and address the issue. And it does sound like she needs to get laid; you might want to give that some thought.

On a serious note, once the issue is resolved, you need to steer clear of the vengeful one.
 

The Sperminator

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What you got to do is tell her that you are a changed man. Tell her that you were a bad person back then and ask her to forgive you. Then tell her you want to make it up to her by taking her out some where nice. Take her out act nice to her then bring her back to your place and have sex with her then tell her to get the **** out when your done and never talk to her again haha.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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