"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dealing with "this" girl

WesCottII

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Hey guys,

A while ago, before I knew about "all things DJ" I was going through my Jerk phase, I knew this girl. Wasn't interested in her sexually at all, and we didn't get on, always falling out. Now, 2 years later....she STILL bears a grudge about it, keeps popping up from time to time to "remind" me what a failure I am :crazy:

We have a mutual friend who tells her all the stuff I do, and she makes it her mission, to make sure everyone knows what "kind of guy" I am. She popped up on msn last night claiming that I was making friends up and that she won't leave me alone until I admit that I'm a bad person. Naturally I refused, but I don't much fancy her invading all my "circles" starting rumours.

Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zazenth

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Haha!

Welcome to life. You know what my friends would say about this: “This girl needs a good F-ucking”.
And they have a point. Prove to her you’ve changed. Don’t fight back. Don’t avoid her. DJ her. Show her what your made of, then she sing praises of you.
 

Faraday

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Well she is psico. What I would do if in your place is telling "yes, you know what, I'm a bad person, happy?. I'm the most horrible person on earth, and I deserve death and hell, ok?".

She is just a poor little girl who is obsessed with you, don't pay attention to her.
 

L B

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Sounds like she made it her personal mission in life to ruin you. You can A: ignore her and she might go away. Or B: confront her and address the issue. And it does sound like she needs to get laid; you might want to give that some thought.

On a serious note, once the issue is resolved, you need to steer clear of the vengeful one.
 

The Sperminator

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What you got to do is tell her that you are a changed man. Tell her that you were a bad person back then and ask her to forgive you. Then tell her you want to make it up to her by taking her out some where nice. Take her out act nice to her then bring her back to your place and have sex with her then tell her to get the **** out when your done and never talk to her again haha.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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