You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by Wiesman44
don't go out with shy girls. They're not worth the time or effort. Go after women that are go-getters, and not afraid to speak up.
Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
dealing with all girls is the same.........it is simple, they are all sexual, get in your sexual state, give her that lusting eye contact, and BLAM....you two are fvckin wild and crazy like two teenaged kids while no ones home!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, this really works!! Today I was at Wal Mart buying some used anime DVDs and I scoped out this HB9.738281 at one of the registers so I went to that one!!!Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
dealing with all girls is the same.........it is simple, they are all sexual, get in your sexual state, give her that lusting eye contact, and BLAM....you two are fvckin wild and crazy like two teenaged kids while no ones home!