You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by Wiesman44
don't go out with shy girls. They're not worth the time or effort. Go after women that are go-getters, and not afraid to speak up.
Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
dealing with all girls is the same.........it is simple, they are all sexual, get in your sexual state, give her that lusting eye contact, and BLAM....you two are fvckin wild and crazy like two teenaged kids while no ones home!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah, this really works!! Today I was at Wal Mart buying some used anime DVDs and I scoped out this HB9.738281 at one of the registers so I went to that one!!!Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
dealing with all girls is the same.........it is simple, they are all sexual, get in your sexual state, give her that lusting eye contact, and BLAM....you two are fvckin wild and crazy like two teenaged kids while no ones home!