"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dealing with Rudeness
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Tomatoes
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I would prob walk away.
I once didnt...i decided I would say something....It was some chavy piece of **** trash hore and i didnt approach or anything. She just started saying sh!t.
So i told her to "go get aids you dirty slag"
She didnt appreicate it to say the least....It involved a fight between me and 2 mates against 8-10 lads....We didnt fare very well but no one got seriously hurt.
Sarge On!
don't get mad, thats what they want. Smile and tell her that her face will get wrinkles if she stays that angry and that nobody likes an angry woman with wrinkles and laugh some more. She will be so pissed, and you told her. Don't lower your self to her level of petty insults and b!tching. Just laugh at her.DarkChaos said:
Chaos-Knight
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And be prepared to take a hit our two ... ha ha!
If others are around they'll laugh at her making it even more funny.
:crackup::crackup::crackup:
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Insult back - get yourself in a drama match.
Get angry - they win... you look weak.
All 3 options mean you aren't getting any sex so why waste thought on it... just walk away and focus on better things.
insult back - no point
get angry - no point, plus kinda weird
ignore it - thatd just be weird
tell her firmly that I don't put up with that behavior - that'd be really weird, might work some other places but not where I'm from EVERYONE will think you're crazy.
Although I've never had a girl tell me "**** off" seriously but obviously I have been rude to before, that's jus **** to tease her about really... I mean, who really cares anyway? Tease the **** out of her for it! I see Chaos-Knight understands already at least
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I almost wet myself when i read that great insult i really gotta remember that one.Chaos-Knight said:
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Or better yet... who is the girl that isn't interested in hooking up? Oh.. that's right... ALL of them! hardeeharharg g g unit said:
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If you ignore someone long enough, they start to think they don't exist.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You cut them off for a short period of time. Could be anything from a few minutes to a few days depending on the situation. You have to imply that you don't approve of the attitude and that you'll pay attention to them again later.
What's important here is that you decide and let them know right away when they are worth your time again by saying something very simple and vague like, "I'll talk to you again in 15 minutes". You don't let them decide by saying something along the lines of "get back to me when you stop being a b-tch".
If they still have an attitude when you get back to them, just do it again and cut them off a little longer each time until they either straighten themselves out or lose you.
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WTF?? I didnt really get w/e you said but i presume its some cheap shot at me, considering we dont know eachover its actually quite sad to see someone trying to score man points from behind their computer screen but hey watever turns you on i just cant be fvcked getting into a girly slanging match.reallyfreakinlost said: