Dealing with Rudeness

[DarkChaos]

How do you deal with a girl that's giving you an attitude? Maybe an insult, like "**** you," or "shut up," or something. Just ignore it? Get mad? Insult back?

 

[Coolguy123]

Either walk away or let her know firmly that you don't put up with that type of behavior.

 

[Tomatoes]

Im a lover not a fighter....

I would prob walk away.

I once didnt...i decided I would say something....It was some chavy piece of **** trash hore and i didnt approach or anything. She just started saying sh!t.

So i told her to "go get aids you dirty slag"

She didnt appreicate it to say the least....It involved a fight between me and 2 mates against 8-10 lads....We didnt fare very well but no one got seriously hurt.



Sarge On!

 

[rocky_mtn]

How do you deal with a girl that's giving you an attitude? Maybe an insult, like "**** you," or "shut up," or something. Just ignore it? Get mad? Insult back?

don't get mad, thats what they want. Smile and tell her that her face will get wrinkles if she stays that angry and that nobody likes an angry woman with wrinkles and laugh some more. She will be so pissed, and you told her. Don't lower your self to her level of petty insults and b!tching. Just laugh at her.

 

[Chaos-Knight]

You Say to her " Who Lit the Fuse on your tampon" in a loud teasing voice
And be prepared to take a hit our two ... ha ha!

If others are around they'll laugh at her making it even more funny.


:crackup::crackup::crackup:
:cuss:

 

[flexion_]

Ignore - good.
Insult back - get yourself in a drama match.
Get angry - they win... you look weak.

All 3 options mean you aren't getting any sex so why waste thought on it... just walk away and focus on better things.

 

[Randomer]

...lol Ummm, if I walk up to a girl, i definitely won't let some rudeness at the start on her part get to me... that means I definitely won't:
insult back - no point
get angry - no point, plus kinda weird
ignore it - thatd just be weird
tell her firmly that I don't put up with that behavior - that'd be really weird, might work some other places but not where I'm from EVERYONE will think you're crazy.

Although I've never had a girl tell me "**** off" seriously but obviously I have been rude to before, that's jus **** to tease her about really... I mean, who really cares anyway? Tease the **** out of her for it! I see Chaos-Knight understands already at least

 

[g g g unit]

You Say to her " Who Lit the Fuse on your tampon" in a loud teasing voice

I almost wet myself when i read that great insult i really gotta remember that one.

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

I almost wet myself when i read that great insult i really gotta remember that one.

Or better yet... who is the girl that isn't interested in hooking up? Oh.. that's right... ALL of them! hardeeharhar

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

People who start drama, whether men or women, are looking for attention. To insult back is giving them attention. To try and confront them is giving them attention. To ignore, and act like they don't exist is the proper thing to do.

If you ignore someone long enough, they start to think they don't exist.

 

[Jackman]

How do you deal with a girl that's giving you an attitude? Maybe an insult, like "**** you," or "shut up," or something. Just ignore it? Get mad? Insult back?

You cut them off for a short period of time. Could be anything from a few minutes to a few days depending on the situation. You have to imply that you don't approve of the attitude and that you'll pay attention to them again later.

What's important here is that you decide and let them know right away when they are worth your time again by saying something very simple and vague like, "I'll talk to you again in 15 minutes". You don't let them decide by saying something along the lines of "get back to me when you stop being a b-tch".

If they still have an attitude when you get back to them, just do it again and cut them off a little longer each time until they either straighten themselves out or lose you.

 

[g g g unit]

Or better yet... who is the girl that isn't interested in hooking up? Oh.. that's right... ALL of them! hardeeharhar

WTF?? I didnt really get w/e you said but i presume its some cheap shot at me, considering we dont know eachover its actually quite sad to see someone trying to score man points from behind their computer screen but hey watever turns you on i just cant be fvcked getting into a girly slanging match.

 

[mob88]

I put females in their place plain and simple. Real talk, most females think they can diss a Man and can get away with it just because they are females. They take advantage of societies stigma that females are the weaker sex. Now I would never hit a female but I will cuss her out and I won't think twice about it if she's around my age and isn't an elder. It's not that hard dissing a female all u have to do is take shots at their ignorance.

 

[hope7]

don't get mad, thats what they want. Smile and tell her that her face will get wrinkles if she stays that angry and that nobody likes an angry woman with wrinkles and laugh some more. She will be so pissed, and you told her. Don't lower your self to her level of petty insults and b!tching. Just laugh at her.

I like this one. I go by the philiophy 'don't lose your cool". Show that you are in controll of your emotions.