"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dealing with Rudeness
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I would prob walk away.
I once didnt...i decided I would say something....It was some chavy piece of **** trash hore and i didnt approach or anything. She just started saying sh!t.
So i told her to "go get aids you dirty slag"
She didnt appreicate it to say the least....It involved a fight between me and 2 mates against 8-10 lads....We didnt fare very well but no one got seriously hurt.
Sarge On!
don't get mad, thats what they want. Smile and tell her that her face will get wrinkles if she stays that angry and that nobody likes an angry woman with wrinkles and laugh some more. She will be so pissed, and you told her. Don't lower your self to her level of petty insults and b!tching. Just laugh at her.DarkChaos said:
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And be prepared to take a hit our two ... ha ha!
If others are around they'll laugh at her making it even more funny.
:crackup::crackup::crackup:
:cuss:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Insult back - get yourself in a drama match.
Get angry - they win... you look weak.
All 3 options mean you aren't getting any sex so why waste thought on it... just walk away and focus on better things.
insult back - no point
get angry - no point, plus kinda weird
ignore it - thatd just be weird
tell her firmly that I don't put up with that behavior - that'd be really weird, might work some other places but not where I'm from EVERYONE will think you're crazy.
Although I've never had a girl tell me "**** off" seriously but obviously I have been rude to before, that's jus **** to tease her about really... I mean, who really cares anyway? Tease the **** out of her for it! I see Chaos-Knight understands already at least
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I almost wet myself when i read that great insult i really gotta remember that one.Chaos-Knight said:
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Or better yet... who is the girl that isn't interested in hooking up? Oh.. that's right... ALL of them! hardeeharharg g g unit said:
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If you ignore someone long enough, they start to think they don't exist.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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You cut them off for a short period of time. Could be anything from a few minutes to a few days depending on the situation. You have to imply that you don't approve of the attitude and that you'll pay attention to them again later.
What's important here is that you decide and let them know right away when they are worth your time again by saying something very simple and vague like, "I'll talk to you again in 15 minutes". You don't let them decide by saying something along the lines of "get back to me when you stop being a b-tch".
If they still have an attitude when you get back to them, just do it again and cut them off a little longer each time until they either straighten themselves out or lose you.
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WTF?? I didnt really get w/e you said but i presume its some cheap shot at me, considering we dont know eachover its actually quite sad to see someone trying to score man points from behind their computer screen but hey watever turns you on i just cant be fvcked getting into a girly slanging match.reallyfreakinlost said: