"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing With Rejection

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So guys, today i had an epiphany. I have confidence, but not the type of confidence that is needed to be successful with girls. My biggest fear is rejection. I'm even afraid to ask my parents for things sometimes. I know, it's really sad. I'm not an ugly guy, i'm not a stupid guy, i am a funny guy, but I just can never muster up enough courage to actually ask a girl out. I want to change that, but I don't know how. Homecoming is in 2 weeks for my school, and I really want to go, but I don't have a date. There's a girl i like in one of my classes, and I really want to ask her, but I seriously don't know how to go about it. Any advice would be helpful. Especially for people what have gone through what I'm going through right now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That sounds like great advice!!!!
No just kidding.
 
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Why would asking a girl from my school cause drama?
 
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It depends on how you view it. You see rejection as a personal thing while it may not be. There could be dozens of reasons why the girl don't take you up on your offer but for you the reason is that you're not good enough.

Everybody will get rejected sometime and usually people get rejected in the vast majority of cases ie when approaching.


Start by seeing rejections as they really are ie not always your fault.
See them as a learning experiance.
See it as the girl losing out and making a big mistake.
See it as being a percentage. You'll have to get "rejected" a few times to find the woman most suited to you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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