"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dealing With Rejection

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So guys, today i had an epiphany. I have confidence, but not the type of confidence that is needed to be successful with girls. My biggest fear is rejection. I'm even afraid to ask my parents for things sometimes. I know, it's really sad. I'm not an ugly guy, i'm not a stupid guy, i am a funny guy, but I just can never muster up enough courage to actually ask a girl out. I want to change that, but I don't know how. Homecoming is in 2 weeks for my school, and I really want to go, but I don't have a date. There's a girl i like in one of my classes, and I really want to ask her, but I seriously don't know how to go about it. Any advice would be helpful. Especially for people what have gone through what I'm going through right now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That sounds like great advice!!!!
No just kidding.
 
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Why would asking a girl from my school cause drama?
 
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It depends on how you view it. You see rejection as a personal thing while it may not be. There could be dozens of reasons why the girl don't take you up on your offer but for you the reason is that you're not good enough.

Everybody will get rejected sometime and usually people get rejected in the vast majority of cases ie when approaching.


Start by seeing rejections as they really are ie not always your fault.
See them as a learning experiance.
See it as the girl losing out and making a big mistake.
See it as being a percentage. You'll have to get "rejected" a few times to find the woman most suited to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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