Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dealing with procrastination and laziness

Prodoge

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Over the past six months I have been rather lazy and having plans but not putting them into action.

In college i have also been doing the bare minimum to get good enough grades to pass the semester.

The only thing I have been disciplined with for the last 6 months was my workout routine. I don't what it is, sometimes I have great ideas but fail to put them into action because of a lack of determination.

One thing is for sure that I have not found my real passion yet. Nothing i have done for now i put 110% into it, and sometimes I get the impression I am lacking the will to beat someone/something.

Any suggestions ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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Think about 10 years from now. Do you want to look back and think that you didn't do everything you could to have a successful life?
 

The Duke

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Over the past six months I have been rather lazy and having plans but not putting them into action.

In college i have also been doing the bare minimum to get good enough grades to pass the semester.

The only thing I have been disciplined with for the last 6 months was my workout routine. I don't what it is, sometimes I have great ideas but fail to put them into action because of a lack of determination.

One thing is for sure that I have not found my real passion yet. Nothing i have done for now i put 110% into it, and sometimes I get the impression I am lacking the will to beat someone/something.

Any suggestions ?
You are AMERICA's future! No worries there are thousands more just like you! No need to get worried and off your ass. The hard workers will pay your way.
 
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