"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dealing with procrastination and laziness

Prodoge

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Over the past six months I have been rather lazy and having plans but not putting them into action.

In college i have also been doing the bare minimum to get good enough grades to pass the semester.

The only thing I have been disciplined with for the last 6 months was my workout routine. I don't what it is, sometimes I have great ideas but fail to put them into action because of a lack of determination.

One thing is for sure that I have not found my real passion yet. Nothing i have done for now i put 110% into it, and sometimes I get the impression I am lacking the will to beat someone/something.

Any suggestions ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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skinnyguy

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Think about 10 years from now. Do you want to look back and think that you didn't do everything you could to have a successful life?
 

The Duke

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Over the past six months I have been rather lazy and having plans but not putting them into action.

In college i have also been doing the bare minimum to get good enough grades to pass the semester.

The only thing I have been disciplined with for the last 6 months was my workout routine. I don't what it is, sometimes I have great ideas but fail to put them into action because of a lack of determination.

One thing is for sure that I have not found my real passion yet. Nothing i have done for now i put 110% into it, and sometimes I get the impression I am lacking the will to beat someone/something.

Any suggestions ?
You are AMERICA's future! No worries there are thousands more just like you! No need to get worried and off your ass. The hard workers will pay your way.
 
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