"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dealing with procrastination and laziness

Prodoge

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Over the past six months I have been rather lazy and having plans but not putting them into action.

In college i have also been doing the bare minimum to get good enough grades to pass the semester.

The only thing I have been disciplined with for the last 6 months was my workout routine. I don't what it is, sometimes I have great ideas but fail to put them into action because of a lack of determination.

One thing is for sure that I have not found my real passion yet. Nothing i have done for now i put 110% into it, and sometimes I get the impression I am lacking the will to beat someone/something.

Any suggestions ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skinnyguy

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Think about 10 years from now. Do you want to look back and think that you didn't do everything you could to have a successful life?
 

The Duke

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Over the past six months I have been rather lazy and having plans but not putting them into action.

In college i have also been doing the bare minimum to get good enough grades to pass the semester.

The only thing I have been disciplined with for the last 6 months was my workout routine. I don't what it is, sometimes I have great ideas but fail to put them into action because of a lack of determination.

One thing is for sure that I have not found my real passion yet. Nothing i have done for now i put 110% into it, and sometimes I get the impression I am lacking the will to beat someone/something.

Any suggestions ?
You are AMERICA's future! No worries there are thousands more just like you! No need to get worried and off your ass. The hard workers will pay your way.
 
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