"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dealing with "new" girls

Fumbduck

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Maybe you guys can help me understand something very juvenile that has been on my mind for a while...

My game with new girls is solid. Conversation is easy to initiate and maintain, girls are receptive we first meet, and follow up texting; phone calls, online messages, etc are flirty and upbeat. However, the recent batch of girls who i'm "talking" to DO NOT initiate contact. Is this some type of game they play, some "hard to get" thing, waiting for the man to make ALL the advances?

I feel that at some point in the game girls should be expected to reach out every now and again. Am I wrong to think this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When girls meet a guy who is willing to be the leader, sometimes they like to sit back and let them do the leading. If you stop contacting them, they will have to contact you (if they have sufficient interest). As long as you are doing all the lifting, they will be content to sit back and let you do it.
 

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These are the picky ones, that need lotsa time to make sure you are worth their time because they have options (or so they think).They can also be attention wh*res as well, or simply with low interest.

It seem like that before you actually had a good run with the ones that do reciprocate because that is usually not the case.

What do we mean by "talking"? Are you escalating and letting them know that you are attracted sexually?

Something might have shifted in your game where they can feel you as a sexual threat and no longer think of you in platonic terms. Once that happens, woman's attitude towards you will change and they will not want to make "just friends" with you.They may like you even to the point of stringing you along, yet too scared because they know you will fuk them (especially nice girls with boyfriends).
 
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