"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dealing with "new" girls

Fumbduck

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Maybe you guys can help me understand something very juvenile that has been on my mind for a while...

My game with new girls is solid. Conversation is easy to initiate and maintain, girls are receptive we first meet, and follow up texting; phone calls, online messages, etc are flirty and upbeat. However, the recent batch of girls who i'm "talking" to DO NOT initiate contact. Is this some type of game they play, some "hard to get" thing, waiting for the man to make ALL the advances?

I feel that at some point in the game girls should be expected to reach out every now and again. Am I wrong to think this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko

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When girls meet a guy who is willing to be the leader, sometimes they like to sit back and let them do the leading. If you stop contacting them, they will have to contact you (if they have sufficient interest). As long as you are doing all the lifting, they will be content to sit back and let you do it.
 

PapiChulo

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These are the picky ones, that need lotsa time to make sure you are worth their time because they have options (or so they think).They can also be attention wh*res as well, or simply with low interest.

It seem like that before you actually had a good run with the ones that do reciprocate because that is usually not the case.

What do we mean by "talking"? Are you escalating and letting them know that you are attracted sexually?

Something might have shifted in your game where they can feel you as a sexual threat and no longer think of you in platonic terms. Once that happens, woman's attitude towards you will change and they will not want to make "just friends" with you.They may like you even to the point of stringing you along, yet too scared because they know you will fuk them (especially nice girls with boyfriends).
 
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