“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dealing with "new" girls

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Maybe you guys can help me understand something very juvenile that has been on my mind for a while...

My game with new girls is solid. Conversation is easy to initiate and maintain, girls are receptive we first meet, and follow up texting; phone calls, online messages, etc are flirty and upbeat. However, the recent batch of girls who i'm "talking" to DO NOT initiate contact. Is this some type of game they play, some "hard to get" thing, waiting for the man to make ALL the advances?

I feel that at some point in the game girls should be expected to reach out every now and again. Am I wrong to think this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When girls meet a guy who is willing to be the leader, sometimes they like to sit back and let them do the leading. If you stop contacting them, they will have to contact you (if they have sufficient interest). As long as you are doing all the lifting, they will be content to sit back and let you do it.
 
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These are the picky ones, that need lotsa time to make sure you are worth their time because they have options (or so they think).They can also be attention wh*res as well, or simply with low interest.

It seem like that before you actually had a good run with the ones that do reciprocate because that is usually not the case.

What do we mean by "talking"? Are you escalating and letting them know that you are attracted sexually?

Something might have shifted in your game where they can feel you as a sexual threat and no longer think of you in platonic terms. Once that happens, woman's attitude towards you will change and they will not want to make "just friends" with you.They may like you even to the point of stringing you along, yet too scared because they know you will fuk them (especially nice girls with boyfriends).
 
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