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dealing with flakiness

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so I get a message from an HB8 I was supposed to meet up with tomorrow night (first date) and she says something's come up at work and she can't meet up tomorrow but instead proposes Sunday.

Options:

a) "No worries, cu Sunday"
b) Ignore the message completely and see if she calls back before Sunday.
c) Call her out on her flakiness: "You're not playing games with me are you? I don't play games"
d) Other

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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I gotta agree with Shezz there.

She hasnt cancelled, she has suggested an alternative. Nothing to worry about.

So go for d) Other

"Thats fine, but you're gonna have to make it up to me! meet me at (location) at (time)"

Good luck!
 
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