"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dealing with flakiness

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so I get a message from an HB8 I was supposed to meet up with tomorrow night (first date) and she says something's come up at work and she can't meet up tomorrow but instead proposes Sunday.

Options:

a) "No worries, cu Sunday"
b) Ignore the message completely and see if she calls back before Sunday.
c) Call her out on her flakiness: "You're not playing games with me are you? I don't play games"
d) Other

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I gotta agree with Shezz there.

She hasnt cancelled, she has suggested an alternative. Nothing to worry about.

So go for d) Other

"Thats fine, but you're gonna have to make it up to me! meet me at (location) at (time)"

Good luck!
 
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