"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dealing with flakiness

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tosh

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so I get a message from an HB8 I was supposed to meet up with tomorrow night (first date) and she says something's come up at work and she can't meet up tomorrow but instead proposes Sunday.

Options:

a) "No worries, cu Sunday"
b) Ignore the message completely and see if she calls back before Sunday.
c) Call her out on her flakiness: "You're not playing games with me are you? I don't play games"
d) Other

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

AFC
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fash

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I gotta agree with Shezz there.

She hasnt cancelled, she has suggested an alternative. Nothing to worry about.

So go for d) Other

"Thats fine, but you're gonna have to make it up to me! meet me at (location) at (time)"

Good luck!
 
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