"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing with controlling women?

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domino

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What are some effective ways to deal with controlling women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nexus Polaris

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Don't comply.

Seriously, they're only controlling if you play along with it.
 
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Dilberto

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What do you tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing......you already told her TWICE!!! J/K!!!
 
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xdreamz

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ok repeat after me

i'm in control
i'm in control
i'm in control

now don't use any excuse or explanation and you'll be fine.
 
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Control takes many forms

If its unreasonable requests then i Laugh. I always laugh at something i think is unreasonable. I then repeat back what they asked me to do and then tap on at the end, what do you take me for/ do you think im crazy? / i thought slavery was abolished years ago. Or something like awww, you clearly dont know me very well if you think imma going to do that. Or even, heeyyy i never knew you started a career in stand up comedy, your really good! Then there's always the counter to anything unreasonable to ask hey whats in it for me. You can even cuss them out. If it's in a silly fun way, you always get away with it. She knows she cant push you around, and you dont get into a fight either.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think maybe when a girl is trying to be controlling its because she can sense shes more into the relationship then you. which is good and bad foor you for obvious reasons. whatever she wants offer a compromise. try to meet her half way. unless she is just being ridiculous ofcourse. If she can't compromise she might need to get the message from you that she might be getting nexted. just be prepared for not having her around. you might be surprised how much you miss her. so disipline her but don't burn the bridge. or else she might have the upper hand at some point.
 
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