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Dealing with controlling women?

domino

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What are some effective ways to deal with controlling women?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Nexus Polaris

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Don't comply.

Seriously, they're only controlling if you play along with it.
 

Dilberto

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What do you tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing......you already told her TWICE!!! J/K!!!
 

xdreamz

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ok repeat after me

i'm in control
i'm in control
i'm in control

now don't use any excuse or explanation and you'll be fine.
 

shinko

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Control takes many forms

If its unreasonable requests then i Laugh. I always laugh at something i think is unreasonable. I then repeat back what they asked me to do and then tap on at the end, what do you take me for/ do you think im crazy? / i thought slavery was abolished years ago. Or something like awww, you clearly dont know me very well if you think imma going to do that. Or even, heeyyy i never knew you started a career in stand up comedy, your really good! Then there's always the counter to anything unreasonable to ask hey whats in it for me. You can even cuss them out. If it's in a silly fun way, you always get away with it. She knows she cant push you around, and you dont get into a fight either.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

sosilky

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I think maybe when a girl is trying to be controlling its because she can sense shes more into the relationship then you. which is good and bad foor you for obvious reasons. whatever she wants offer a compromise. try to meet her half way. unless she is just being ridiculous ofcourse. If she can't compromise she might need to get the message from you that she might be getting nexted. just be prepared for not having her around. you might be surprised how much you miss her. so disipline her but don't burn the bridge. or else she might have the upper hand at some point.
 
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