Ok, meet this girl a week ago at this bar and get her number. I chilled with her a couple nights ago with a few friends and some of their friends. I was working it with her all night, until one of the guys i didnt know tried to move in and got her number (he lives right near where she works). Now later, he left and i stayed there and i made out with her a bunch of times. What happens if this guy actually tries to call her... do I just have to play the game better than he does?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dealing with competition
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