"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dealing with competition

alevy101

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Ok, meet this girl a week ago at this bar and get her number. I chilled with her a couple nights ago with a few friends and some of their friends. I was working it with her all night, until one of the guys i didnt know tried to move in and got her number (he lives right near where she works). Now later, he left and i stayed there and i made out with her a bunch of times. What happens if this guy actually tries to call her... do I just have to play the game better than he does?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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As long as she's more interested in you, what's to worry about?
 

GaryUranga

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I think David Dsaid something about how to deal with this, play it cool, if he makes a move be totally calm and cool about it, make fun of it, say "youd make a nice couple" in a funny way. Just dont get jeaous or show it.
 
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