Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dealing with competition

alevy101

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Ok, meet this girl a week ago at this bar and get her number. I chilled with her a couple nights ago with a few friends and some of their friends. I was working it with her all night, until one of the guys i didnt know tried to move in and got her number (he lives right near where she works). Now later, he left and i stayed there and i made out with her a bunch of times. What happens if this guy actually tries to call her... do I just have to play the game better than he does?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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As long as she's more interested in you, what's to worry about?
 

GaryUranga

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I think David Dsaid something about how to deal with this, play it cool, if he makes a move be totally calm and cool about it, make fun of it, say "youd make a nice couple" in a funny way. Just dont get jeaous or show it.
 
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