Ok, meet this girl a week ago at this bar and get her number. I chilled with her a couple nights ago with a few friends and some of their friends. I was working it with her all night, until one of the guys i didnt know tried to move in and got her number (he lives right near where she works). Now later, he left and i stayed there and i made out with her a bunch of times. What happens if this guy actually tries to call her... do I just have to play the game better than he does?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dealing with competition
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