"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dealing with bvtches at work

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How do you deal with women who are bvtches for no reason that you have to work with in a daily basis?

I started working at this retail spot a few weeks ago. I'm cool with everybody except for one chick. When I first met her she said **** like "I don't like people" and "I'd rathergo home and sleep than hangout with friends". She supposedly ha a boyfriend, who I assume is a little ***** if he puts up with her ****. But I'm a leader type and she's a bossy little ***** so she gets mad when I tell her I can do something on my own and she just talks **** in general. Idk how I'm gonna deal with her bull****. She's a senior in HS so I'm thinking she's translating that hs bull**** drama to work.

She got an attitude with me one day and I told her " you better watch who you're talking to". And she got mad cause I didn't let her talk to me any kind of way
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stop getting mad, which requires you to stop being so easily emotionally involved. Then you will stop giving a fvck. More detail will give you better advice from this forum.
 
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Also I was bored and asked her what kind of music she listen to just to make conversation. She said all kinds so I asked her who her favorite band/artist was. She said omg why do you keep asking me that same question you've asked me like 5 times.... I literally only asked her one fvcking time.

Idk maybe that hurt my ego made me feel like she thought I was trying to flirt with her when I wasn't. For whatever reason that made me mad.

I'm thinking she's doing it just to see me react and I'm gonna treat her like an attention ***** when I go back to work and just not react to anything she says.
 
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LandingWood said:
When I first met her she said [Sh*t] like "I don't like people" and "I'd rathergo home and sleep than hangout with friends"
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Report her to your boss. That behavior is unacceptable especially in a professional working area. Business is business. If I were the boss of that franchise and I heard her say that, I would pull her aside ASAP. That type of attitude in my workforce would not belong there.

As for confronting her, I would said avoid her or at least try and be playful toward her sh*tty attitude. Don't let the sand in her vagina bother you because it could even get you fired for retaliating. You wouldn't want an argument to break out in the middle of working would you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Frayzer said:
Report her to your boss. That behavior is unacceptable especially in a professional working area. Business is business. If I were the boss of that franchise and I heard her say that, I would pull her aside ASAP. That type of attitude in my workforce would not belong there.

As for confronting her, I would said avoid her or at least try and be playful toward her sh*tty attitude. Don't let the sand in her vagina bother you because it could even get you fired for retaliating. You wouldn't want an argument to break out in the middle of working would you?
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Yeah my manager was pretty cool and I asked her about the chick after she told me that and she laughed. Maybe I am being a little bich about it. It gets slow sometimes and I'm really social so I just talk to my co workers and she's always the closet to me.
 
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sounds like a bunch of 5 yr old. Be a man and dont snitch and go find something else to do at work. Read a book or something.
 
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LandingWood said:
I'm thinking she's doing it just to see me react and I'm gonna treat her like an attention ***** when I go back to work and just not react to anything she says.
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^This. Now you know not to try to make casual conversation with her. She is an AW, and she enjoys being difficult with you. Only talk to her when it's work-related.

This is common in the workplace. Some females are cool, and you can have some limited casual conversations with them. But others have to be more or less ignored except for work-related stuff.

The manager knows what this AW is like. So no need to worry about it.
 
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Frayzer said:
Report her to your boss. That behavior is unacceptable especially in a professional working area. Business is business. If I were the boss of that franchise and I heard her say that, I would pull her aside ASAP. That type of attitude in my workforce would not belong there.
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^^^was this intended as a joke? that's how i read it. it was pretty funny if it was a joke.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^^^was this intended as a joke? that's how i read it. it was pretty funny if it was a joke.
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Lol I don't think he was joking was funny though
 
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sozzz said:
sounds like a bunch of 5 yr old. Be a man and dont snitch and go find something else to do at work. Read a book or something.
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Read a book? Tf I look like pulling out a book
 
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