"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dealing with bvtches at work

LandingWood

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How do you deal with women who are bvtches for no reason that you have to work with in a daily basis?

I started working at this retail spot a few weeks ago. I'm cool with everybody except for one chick. When I first met her she said **** like "I don't like people" and "I'd rathergo home and sleep than hangout with friends". She supposedly ha a boyfriend, who I assume is a little ***** if he puts up with her ****. But I'm a leader type and she's a bossy little ***** so she gets mad when I tell her I can do something on my own and she just talks **** in general. Idk how I'm gonna deal with her bull****. She's a senior in HS so I'm thinking she's translating that hs bull**** drama to work.

She got an attitude with me one day and I told her " you better watch who you're talking to". And she got mad cause I didn't let her talk to me any kind of way
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stop getting mad, which requires you to stop being so easily emotionally involved. Then you will stop giving a fvck. More detail will give you better advice from this forum.
 

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Also I was bored and asked her what kind of music she listen to just to make conversation. She said all kinds so I asked her who her favorite band/artist was. She said omg why do you keep asking me that same question you've asked me like 5 times.... I literally only asked her one fvcking time.

Idk maybe that hurt my ego made me feel like she thought I was trying to flirt with her when I wasn't. For whatever reason that made me mad.

I'm thinking she's doing it just to see me react and I'm gonna treat her like an attention ***** when I go back to work and just not react to anything she says.
 

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LandingWood said:
When I first met her she said [Sh*t] like "I don't like people" and "I'd rathergo home and sleep than hangout with friends"
Report her to your boss. That behavior is unacceptable especially in a professional working area. Business is business. If I were the boss of that franchise and I heard her say that, I would pull her aside ASAP. That type of attitude in my workforce would not belong there.

As for confronting her, I would said avoid her or at least try and be playful toward her sh*tty attitude. Don't let the sand in her vagina bother you because it could even get you fired for retaliating. You wouldn't want an argument to break out in the middle of working would you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LandingWood

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Frayzer said:
Report her to your boss. That behavior is unacceptable especially in a professional working area. Business is business. If I were the boss of that franchise and I heard her say that, I would pull her aside ASAP. That type of attitude in my workforce would not belong there.

As for confronting her, I would said avoid her or at least try and be playful toward her sh*tty attitude. Don't let the sand in her vagina bother you because it could even get you fired for retaliating. You wouldn't want an argument to break out in the middle of working would you?
Yeah my manager was pretty cool and I asked her about the chick after she told me that and she laughed. Maybe I am being a little bich about it. It gets slow sometimes and I'm really social so I just talk to my co workers and she's always the closet to me.
 

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sounds like a bunch of 5 yr old. Be a man and dont snitch and go find something else to do at work. Read a book or something.
 

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LandingWood said:
I'm thinking she's doing it just to see me react and I'm gonna treat her like an attention ***** when I go back to work and just not react to anything she says.
^This. Now you know not to try to make casual conversation with her. She is an AW, and she enjoys being difficult with you. Only talk to her when it's work-related.

This is common in the workplace. Some females are cool, and you can have some limited casual conversations with them. But others have to be more or less ignored except for work-related stuff.

The manager knows what this AW is like. So no need to worry about it.
 

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Frayzer said:
Report her to your boss. That behavior is unacceptable especially in a professional working area. Business is business. If I were the boss of that franchise and I heard her say that, I would pull her aside ASAP. That type of attitude in my workforce would not belong there.
^^^was this intended as a joke? that's how i read it. it was pretty funny if it was a joke.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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^^^was this intended as a joke? that's how i read it. it was pretty funny if it was a joke.
Lol I don't think he was joking was funny though
 

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sozzz said:
sounds like a bunch of 5 yr old. Be a man and dont snitch and go find something else to do at work. Read a book or something.
Read a book? Tf I look like pulling out a book
 
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