How do you deal with attention *****s, except this time its not the girl but rather the guy that hangs out in your group who tries so hard to grab everyone's attention. He would be making dumb jokes and funny noises to get ppl's attention and then just acts .. i dont want to say retardedly but it comes pretty close. For example: rubbing his own butt, sticks his toungue out randomly and pretend hes making out, screams at the tiniest thing, and etc. just to grab attention. It's irritating me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dealing with attention *****s
- Thread starter Oni
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Tell him hes being a dumbass. Or just ignor him. Or best yet avoid him.
Let him hang himself. I've had guys like this hang out in my social groups and sooner or later they make fools of themselves and p1ss everyone off. If he does anything directly to you, just make a dry comment like "yeah, very clever" or ask him "Why are you doing all that weird stuff?"
One time I was chatting to a girl and we were having a serious discussion when my mate kept interrupting, making jokes and mimicking me. I think he was trying to undermine me and steal the attention, but the girl asked "Why are you doing that?" He shrugged his shoulders and got embarrassed. As soon as he realised no one was laughing, he didn't feel comfortable doing it any more.
One time I was chatting to a girl and we were having a serious discussion when my mate kept interrupting, making jokes and mimicking me. I think he was trying to undermine me and steal the attention, but the girl asked "Why are you doing that?" He shrugged his shoulders and got embarrassed. As soon as he realised no one was laughing, he didn't feel comfortable doing it any more.
Bust his balls a bit.....
The next time he rubs his butt say "You couldn't pay me enough to give me a peepshow, stop rubbing your a$$."
Or if he screams, "Yeah........that's exactly what an orgasm sounds like!"
If he pretends like he's making out say, " Get a room!!...making out with the air is prohibited in my presence... *lift eyebrow* "
If he sticks his tongue out... say, "Yes, I know EXACTLY what you use that for....*lift eyebrow*"....or you could flat out say, "LADIES, spread your legs...his tongue monster is ready!"....<-----don't say that, lol.
Don't be a clown about it...just be cool and calm when you joke.
The next time he rubs his butt say "You couldn't pay me enough to give me a peepshow, stop rubbing your a$$."
Or if he screams, "Yeah........that's exactly what an orgasm sounds like!"
If he pretends like he's making out say, " Get a room!!...making out with the air is prohibited in my presence... *lift eyebrow* "
If he sticks his tongue out... say, "Yes, I know EXACTLY what you use that for....*lift eyebrow*"....or you could flat out say, "LADIES, spread your legs...his tongue monster is ready!"....<-----don't say that, lol.
Don't be a clown about it...just be cool and calm when you joke.
the thing is.. ppl think he is funny and laugh at what he's doing. which make things harder when he does thing directly to me, i have to come up with something that will get him back but at the same time doesnt make me look like im an ***
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I knew a guy like this once. He was doing his routine in front of a girl I liked so I shot in for a double leg takedown. I could tell he didn't have any grappling training because it took me less than 15 seconds to put him in a rear naked choke (unconscious). He never bothered us again after that.