How do you deal with attention *****s, except this time its not the girl but rather the guy that hangs out in your group who tries so hard to grab everyone's attention. He would be making dumb jokes and funny noises to get ppl's attention and then just acts .. i dont want to say retardedly but it comes pretty close. For example: rubbing his own butt, sticks his toungue out randomly and pretend hes making out, screams at the tiniest thing, and etc. just to grab attention. It's irritating me
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dealing with attention *****s
- Thread starter Oni
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Tell him hes being a dumbass. Or just ignor him. Or best yet avoid him.
Let him hang himself. I've had guys like this hang out in my social groups and sooner or later they make fools of themselves and p1ss everyone off. If he does anything directly to you, just make a dry comment like "yeah, very clever" or ask him "Why are you doing all that weird stuff?"
One time I was chatting to a girl and we were having a serious discussion when my mate kept interrupting, making jokes and mimicking me. I think he was trying to undermine me and steal the attention, but the girl asked "Why are you doing that?" He shrugged his shoulders and got embarrassed. As soon as he realised no one was laughing, he didn't feel comfortable doing it any more.
One time I was chatting to a girl and we were having a serious discussion when my mate kept interrupting, making jokes and mimicking me. I think he was trying to undermine me and steal the attention, but the girl asked "Why are you doing that?" He shrugged his shoulders and got embarrassed. As soon as he realised no one was laughing, he didn't feel comfortable doing it any more.
Bust his balls a bit.....
The next time he rubs his butt say "You couldn't pay me enough to give me a peepshow, stop rubbing your a$$."
Or if he screams, "Yeah........that's exactly what an orgasm sounds like!"
If he pretends like he's making out say, " Get a room!!...making out with the air is prohibited in my presence... *lift eyebrow* "
If he sticks his tongue out... say, "Yes, I know EXACTLY what you use that for....*lift eyebrow*"....or you could flat out say, "LADIES, spread your legs...his tongue monster is ready!"....<-----don't say that, lol.
Don't be a clown about it...just be cool and calm when you joke.
The next time he rubs his butt say "You couldn't pay me enough to give me a peepshow, stop rubbing your a$$."
Or if he screams, "Yeah........that's exactly what an orgasm sounds like!"
If he pretends like he's making out say, " Get a room!!...making out with the air is prohibited in my presence... *lift eyebrow* "
If he sticks his tongue out... say, "Yes, I know EXACTLY what you use that for....*lift eyebrow*"....or you could flat out say, "LADIES, spread your legs...his tongue monster is ready!"....<-----don't say that, lol.
Don't be a clown about it...just be cool and calm when you joke.
the thing is.. ppl think he is funny and laugh at what he's doing. which make things harder when he does thing directly to me, i have to come up with something that will get him back but at the same time doesnt make me look like im an ***
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I knew a guy like this once. He was doing his routine in front of a girl I liked so I shot in for a double leg takedown. I could tell he didn't have any grappling training because it took me less than 15 seconds to put him in a rear naked choke (unconscious). He never bothered us again after that.