How do you deal with attention *****s, except this time its not the girl but rather the guy that hangs out in your group who tries so hard to grab everyone's attention. He would be making dumb jokes and funny noises to get ppl's attention and then just acts .. i dont want to say retardedly but it comes pretty close. For example: rubbing his own butt, sticks his toungue out randomly and pretend hes making out, screams at the tiniest thing, and etc. just to grab attention. It's irritating me
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Dealing with attention *****s
- Thread starter Oni
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Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Tell him hes being a dumbass. Or just ignor him. Or best yet avoid him.
Let him hang himself. I've had guys like this hang out in my social groups and sooner or later they make fools of themselves and p1ss everyone off. If he does anything directly to you, just make a dry comment like "yeah, very clever" or ask him "Why are you doing all that weird stuff?"
One time I was chatting to a girl and we were having a serious discussion when my mate kept interrupting, making jokes and mimicking me. I think he was trying to undermine me and steal the attention, but the girl asked "Why are you doing that?" He shrugged his shoulders and got embarrassed. As soon as he realised no one was laughing, he didn't feel comfortable doing it any more.
One time I was chatting to a girl and we were having a serious discussion when my mate kept interrupting, making jokes and mimicking me. I think he was trying to undermine me and steal the attention, but the girl asked "Why are you doing that?" He shrugged his shoulders and got embarrassed. As soon as he realised no one was laughing, he didn't feel comfortable doing it any more.
Bust his balls a bit.....
The next time he rubs his butt say "You couldn't pay me enough to give me a peepshow, stop rubbing your a$$."
Or if he screams, "Yeah........that's exactly what an orgasm sounds like!"
If he pretends like he's making out say, " Get a room!!...making out with the air is prohibited in my presence... *lift eyebrow* "
If he sticks his tongue out... say, "Yes, I know EXACTLY what you use that for....*lift eyebrow*"....or you could flat out say, "LADIES, spread your legs...his tongue monster is ready!"....<-----don't say that, lol.
Don't be a clown about it...just be cool and calm when you joke.
The next time he rubs his butt say "You couldn't pay me enough to give me a peepshow, stop rubbing your a$$."
Or if he screams, "Yeah........that's exactly what an orgasm sounds like!"
If he pretends like he's making out say, " Get a room!!...making out with the air is prohibited in my presence... *lift eyebrow* "
If he sticks his tongue out... say, "Yes, I know EXACTLY what you use that for....*lift eyebrow*"....or you could flat out say, "LADIES, spread your legs...his tongue monster is ready!"....<-----don't say that, lol.
Don't be a clown about it...just be cool and calm when you joke.
the thing is.. ppl think he is funny and laugh at what he's doing. which make things harder when he does thing directly to me, i have to come up with something that will get him back but at the same time doesnt make me look like im an ***
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I knew a guy like this once. He was doing his routine in front of a girl I liked so I shot in for a double leg takedown. I could tell he didn't have any grappling training because it took me less than 15 seconds to put him in a rear naked choke (unconscious). He never bothered us again after that.