Ok, so here's the deal; I'm in college and have a girlfriend at another college who every guy there drools over. Fortunately, she says that she loves me, and her actions prove it. However, there is a particular guy who comes onto her pretty strongly when I'm not around, leaves messages on the board outside her room that are overtly mushy. Should I ignore this dude, or say something to get him to back off? Whatever I do, I don't want to be immmature. Any ideas?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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