"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dealing with another guy...

sbsurfer

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Ok, so here's the deal; I'm in college and have a girlfriend at another college who every guy there drools over. Fortunately, she says that she loves me, and her actions prove it. However, there is a particular guy who comes onto her pretty strongly when I'm not around, leaves messages on the board outside her room that are overtly mushy. Should I ignore this dude, or say something to get him to back off? Whatever I do, I don't want to be immmature. Any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LT1

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I would let it go. If she cares about you she'll ignore the guy. If she ends up messing around with him then obviosuly this helped you see how much was lacking in the relationship and you can move on knowing that you found out she wasn't worth it rather then wasting your time and finding out later on.
 

NewMan

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This guy will never get your chick. It's not guys like this that you need worry about.

Relax, let your girl deal with it - unless she asks you for help or unless he turns into a creepy dude.
 
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