"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dealing with an orbiting c*ck blocker

Tomo

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Tips guys?

He's been friend zoned and obsessed with this HB for a year or so now but the doors still closed on him. Bloke doesn't like me much because I will chat to anyone and have funand this girl responds lots. Lately I've noticed if I'm at a social gathering and if we strike up a conversation, the dude will appear in less than a minute, but into conversation and I've got no time for that so I move on.

The last time annoyed me quite a bit but as I was not looking to game but to enjoy a good conversation so I've decided I'm not backing down next time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EveryPostHere

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Say to the chick "Tic-toc I want to rock you like the eighties. C0ck block it isn't allowed" while pointing at the orbiter.
 

skinnyguy

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Try to set him up with somebody. If he finds some puss of his own, he might stop bothering you.
 

dasein

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Ask her out. When he starts shadowing you on your dates with this girl, THEN you will have grounds for complaint (and maybe a TRO). Every single HB you will ever meet in your life has orbiting CBs... whether you can see them or not, rest assured they are there, know about you, and are sticking in the knives, sht talking you at every opportunity. Get used to that, it's a given reality you must work around. Ask her out and get her attention, or get used to CBs messing up your fun.
 
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