"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dealing with an orbiting c*ck blocker

Tomo

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Tips guys?

He's been friend zoned and obsessed with this HB for a year or so now but the doors still closed on him. Bloke doesn't like me much because I will chat to anyone and have funand this girl responds lots. Lately I've noticed if I'm at a social gathering and if we strike up a conversation, the dude will appear in less than a minute, but into conversation and I've got no time for that so I move on.

The last time annoyed me quite a bit but as I was not looking to game but to enjoy a good conversation so I've decided I'm not backing down next time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EveryPostHere

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Say to the chick "Tic-toc I want to rock you like the eighties. C0ck block it isn't allowed" while pointing at the orbiter.
 

skinnyguy

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Try to set him up with somebody. If he finds some puss of his own, he might stop bothering you.
 

dasein

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Ask her out. When he starts shadowing you on your dates with this girl, THEN you will have grounds for complaint (and maybe a TRO). Every single HB you will ever meet in your life has orbiting CBs... whether you can see them or not, rest assured they are there, know about you, and are sticking in the knives, sht talking you at every opportunity. Get used to that, it's a given reality you must work around. Ask her out and get her attention, or get used to CBs messing up your fun.
 
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