"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

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Not only women. I just cut a male friend because of petty point scoring and drama. The sad thing is these idiots actually seem to think their childish behaviour is normal
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My ex was like this. I think some women like to be put in their place. There's also no winning. If you choose to ignore her behavior, she'll either push more until you reach your limit and then the argument becomes worse. Personally, I couldn't deal with the constant BS arguments.
 
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Before you can lead her, you must lead yourself. You don't like arguing ....DON'T ARGUE. Ignore the **** behavior, ignore her when she acts like that. If she leaves then good riddance. If she stops arguing and adapts to your expectations cool. Otherwise, you are a man and must not let anyone or anything come between you and your peace.
 
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@TitusRamsies one of the worst things about being on a forum for too long is that you have to repeat yourself. I'm sure it's not good for my early onset.

I think you are 100% right on the half you have. The other half to me is reassurance. Often when chicks act out with bad behaviour it's just a cry for attention and reassurance. Some soothing nonsense words and a big hug go a long way. THEN if she continues to act out either there is a big f****** issue you are ignoring in your relationship and you are building on quicksand. Or she is just being a s*** and definitely silence and distance at that point.

Also part of chick maintenance is making sure they have enough social too. If you put woman together they will always make a drama with each other and that sorts out her drama needs. Much better making drama with her friends then with you.

Now I feel like I should be at an Amway convention with one of those buttons. Fix your chick ask me how. Sorry that is an old guy thing we do tend to bang on
 
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