"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

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Not only women. I just cut a male friend because of petty point scoring and drama. The sad thing is these idiots actually seem to think their childish behaviour is normal
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My ex was like this. I think some women like to be put in their place. There's also no winning. If you choose to ignore her behavior, she'll either push more until you reach your limit and then the argument becomes worse. Personally, I couldn't deal with the constant BS arguments.
 
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Before you can lead her, you must lead yourself. You don't like arguing ....DON'T ARGUE. Ignore the **** behavior, ignore her when she acts like that. If she leaves then good riddance. If she stops arguing and adapts to your expectations cool. Otherwise, you are a man and must not let anyone or anything come between you and your peace.
 
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@TitusRamsies one of the worst things about being on a forum for too long is that you have to repeat yourself. I'm sure it's not good for my early onset.

I think you are 100% right on the half you have. The other half to me is reassurance. Often when chicks act out with bad behaviour it's just a cry for attention and reassurance. Some soothing nonsense words and a big hug go a long way. THEN if she continues to act out either there is a big f****** issue you are ignoring in your relationship and you are building on quicksand. Or she is just being a s*** and definitely silence and distance at that point.

Also part of chick maintenance is making sure they have enough social too. If you put woman together they will always make a drama with each other and that sorts out her drama needs. Much better making drama with her friends then with you.

Now I feel like I should be at an Amway convention with one of those buttons. Fix your chick ask me how. Sorry that is an old guy thing we do tend to bang on
 
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