"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dealing with a sexually inexperienced girl?...

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So I've got this girl who's only been with one other guy before me, and that must have been pretty vanilla or short lived because a few of the things we've done have been the first time for her.

What I'm looking for is advice and suggestion on how to best capitalize on this opportunity.

Has anyone had experience with breaking girls in? What worked for you? What didn't work?

She has trouble reaching orgasm and is unsure if she ever has. There's been a few times where I'm pretty sure she has or at least came incredibly close, but like I said, she's inexperienced and unfamiliar with her own sexuality.

She claims she's never masturbated, which I find hard to believe but am willing to accept.

Anyway, I'm interested to her from some others who've had similar experiences.

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just take it slow at first. Very slow. Lots and lots of foreplay and oral sex to get her warmed up. You don't want to cause her pain if she's inexperienced. Don't tell her you're going to try to give her an orgasm, it puts too much pressure on her to perform. Before you actually have sex, give her an orgasm from oral sex. Make sure you take everything slowly, and take two steps forward, and one back. Make her anticipate what's coming next.
 
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Do whatever you want. Its really that easy. Just be aware of her, like you would any chick, and be ready and willing to stop at any point if things get to hairy or intense for her.

Also reassure her that she's good, doing it right, et al. That will displace a lot of the nervousness she will have. Don't be afraid to tell her what to do to accomplish something.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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