"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vintovka

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So I've got this girl who's only been with one other guy before me, and that must have been pretty vanilla or short lived because a few of the things we've done have been the first time for her.

What I'm looking for is advice and suggestion on how to best capitalize on this opportunity.

Has anyone had experience with breaking girls in? What worked for you? What didn't work?

She has trouble reaching orgasm and is unsure if she ever has. There's been a few times where I'm pretty sure she has or at least came incredibly close, but like I said, she's inexperienced and unfamiliar with her own sexuality.

She claims she's never masturbated, which I find hard to believe but am willing to accept.

Anyway, I'm interested to her from some others who've had similar experiences.

Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just take it slow at first. Very slow. Lots and lots of foreplay and oral sex to get her warmed up. You don't want to cause her pain if she's inexperienced. Don't tell her you're going to try to give her an orgasm, it puts too much pressure on her to perform. Before you actually have sex, give her an orgasm from oral sex. Make sure you take everything slowly, and take two steps forward, and one back. Make her anticipate what's coming next.
 
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Do whatever you want. Its really that easy. Just be aware of her, like you would any chick, and be ready and willing to stop at any point if things get to hairy or intense for her.

Also reassure her that she's good, doing it right, et al. That will displace a lot of the nervousness she will have. Don't be afraid to tell her what to do to accomplish something.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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