"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I've got this girl who's only been with one other guy before me, and that must have been pretty vanilla or short lived because a few of the things we've done have been the first time for her.

What I'm looking for is advice and suggestion on how to best capitalize on this opportunity.

Has anyone had experience with breaking girls in? What worked for you? What didn't work?

She has trouble reaching orgasm and is unsure if she ever has. There's been a few times where I'm pretty sure she has or at least came incredibly close, but like I said, she's inexperienced and unfamiliar with her own sexuality.

She claims she's never masturbated, which I find hard to believe but am willing to accept.

Anyway, I'm interested to her from some others who've had similar experiences.

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just take it slow at first. Very slow. Lots and lots of foreplay and oral sex to get her warmed up. You don't want to cause her pain if she's inexperienced. Don't tell her you're going to try to give her an orgasm, it puts too much pressure on her to perform. Before you actually have sex, give her an orgasm from oral sex. Make sure you take everything slowly, and take two steps forward, and one back. Make her anticipate what's coming next.
 
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Do whatever you want. Its really that easy. Just be aware of her, like you would any chick, and be ready and willing to stop at any point if things get to hairy or intense for her.

Also reassure her that she's good, doing it right, et al. That will displace a lot of the nervousness she will have. Don't be afraid to tell her what to do to accomplish something.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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