"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dealing with a sexually inexperienced girl?...

Vintovka

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So I've got this girl who's only been with one other guy before me, and that must have been pretty vanilla or short lived because a few of the things we've done have been the first time for her.

What I'm looking for is advice and suggestion on how to best capitalize on this opportunity.

Has anyone had experience with breaking girls in? What worked for you? What didn't work?

She has trouble reaching orgasm and is unsure if she ever has. There's been a few times where I'm pretty sure she has or at least came incredibly close, but like I said, she's inexperienced and unfamiliar with her own sexuality.

She claims she's never masturbated, which I find hard to believe but am willing to accept.

Anyway, I'm interested to her from some others who've had similar experiences.

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Captain

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Just take it slow at first. Very slow. Lots and lots of foreplay and oral sex to get her warmed up. You don't want to cause her pain if she's inexperienced. Don't tell her you're going to try to give her an orgasm, it puts too much pressure on her to perform. Before you actually have sex, give her an orgasm from oral sex. Make sure you take everything slowly, and take two steps forward, and one back. Make her anticipate what's coming next.
 

scrouds

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Do whatever you want. Its really that easy. Just be aware of her, like you would any chick, and be ready and willing to stop at any point if things get to hairy or intense for her.

Also reassure her that she's good, doing it right, et al. That will displace a lot of the nervousness she will have. Don't be afraid to tell her what to do to accomplish something.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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