So, I was playing things amazingly smooth today....had this one girl giggling and kinoing the hell out of me, just as im about to go for the number.....a kid walks up sits next to me, and starts making fun of where I live. *I live in a mobile home =)* Than I cut into him, and he tells the girl its her fault, and she should go back to her seat, after him still cutting into me, she finally left. WTF?! Completly random, and I dont know what I should have done, my chances are definently not over, but I would love to know how to counter attack his little act of jealousy. :rockon:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dealing with a c0ck block.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You should of just played it cool and act like it didn't bother you. You should of said something like "Can you please leave, I'm trying to work some game here." You're still being ****y, and remaining that alpha male status, and giving him the message to leave, as well as let the girl know what your intentions are. But honestly, this **** block seems like an idiot kid, and would do anything to ruin your chances. Most girls would just see him as immature, and think nothing of it, but because you let it bother you, it may have hurt your chances a bit. I say forget the girl. but if anything like this happens again, just play it cool. Don't try to act all overly macho, just give the guy the message he needs to **** off, without stooping down to his level.
"isnt he so cute when he tries to impress girls..... im in a conversation its not nice to interrupt" then turn back to her and ignore him...
thas just a random thing i thought of but u get the drift. if you act too macho you look like a tool, if u can make a little joke and keepit cool or something then thats major points.
thas just a random thing i thought of but u get the drift. if you act too macho you look like a tool, if u can make a little joke and keepit cool or something then thats major points.
You can't disarm them by arguing with them or threatning them but only by agreeing with them and fvcking with their minds.pvf94 said:a kid walks up sits next to me, and starts making fun of where I live. *I live in a mobile home =)* Than I cut into him,
Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.
If he doesn't move on after that, then you just grab the girl by the arm whisper that you got a secret to tell her and lead her to a more isolated place.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yea co sign thas probbaly the best thing 2 sayDJDamage said:Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.
DJDamage said:You can't disarm them by arguing with them or threatning them but only by agreeing with them and fvcking with their minds.
Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.
If he doesn't move on after that, then you just grab the girl by the arm whisper that you got a secret to tell her and lead her to a more isolated place.
I like, anything else gentleman?