"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dealing with a c0ck block.

pvf94

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So, I was playing things amazingly smooth today....had this one girl giggling and kinoing the hell out of me, just as im about to go for the number.....a kid walks up sits next to me, and starts making fun of where I live. *I live in a mobile home =)* Than I cut into him, and he tells the girl its her fault, and she should go back to her seat, after him still cutting into me, she finally left. WTF?! Completly random, and I dont know what I should have done, my chances are definently not over, but I would love to know how to counter attack his little act of jealousy. :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You should of just played it cool and act like it didn't bother you. You should of said something like "Can you please leave, I'm trying to work some game here." You're still being ****y, and remaining that alpha male status, and giving him the message to leave, as well as let the girl know what your intentions are. But honestly, this **** block seems like an idiot kid, and would do anything to ruin your chances. Most girls would just see him as immature, and think nothing of it, but because you let it bother you, it may have hurt your chances a bit. I say forget the girl. but if anything like this happens again, just play it cool. Don't try to act all overly macho, just give the guy the message he needs to **** off, without stooping down to his level.
 

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nah, i went over to her area after she left mine....all was just the same as it was b4 the **** blockage. Just huntin for ideas to get back at him or come out on top
 

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"isnt he so cute when he tries to impress girls..... im in a conversation its not nice to interrupt" then turn back to her and ignore him...

thas just a random thing i thought of but u get the drift. if you act too macho you look like a tool, if u can make a little joke and keepit cool or something then thats major points.
 

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pvf94 said:
a kid walks up sits next to me, and starts making fun of where I live. *I live in a mobile home =)* Than I cut into him,
You can't disarm them by arguing with them or threatning them but only by agreeing with them and fvcking with their minds.

Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.

If he doesn't move on after that, then you just grab the girl by the arm whisper that you got a secret to tell her and lead her to a more isolated place.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJDamage said:
Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.
yea co sign thas probbaly the best thing 2 say
 

pvf94

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DJDamage said:
You can't disarm them by arguing with them or threatning them but only by agreeing with them and fvcking with their minds.

Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.

If he doesn't move on after that, then you just grab the girl by the arm whisper that you got a secret to tell her and lead her to a more isolated place.

I like, anything else gentleman?
 
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