"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dealing with a c0ck block.

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So, I was playing things amazingly smooth today....had this one girl giggling and kinoing the hell out of me, just as im about to go for the number.....a kid walks up sits next to me, and starts making fun of where I live. *I live in a mobile home =)* Than I cut into him, and he tells the girl its her fault, and she should go back to her seat, after him still cutting into me, she finally left. WTF?! Completly random, and I dont know what I should have done, my chances are definently not over, but I would love to know how to counter attack his little act of jealousy. :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You should of just played it cool and act like it didn't bother you. You should of said something like "Can you please leave, I'm trying to work some game here." You're still being ****y, and remaining that alpha male status, and giving him the message to leave, as well as let the girl know what your intentions are. But honestly, this **** block seems like an idiot kid, and would do anything to ruin your chances. Most girls would just see him as immature, and think nothing of it, but because you let it bother you, it may have hurt your chances a bit. I say forget the girl. but if anything like this happens again, just play it cool. Don't try to act all overly macho, just give the guy the message he needs to **** off, without stooping down to his level.
 

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nah, i went over to her area after she left mine....all was just the same as it was b4 the **** blockage. Just huntin for ideas to get back at him or come out on top
 

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"isnt he so cute when he tries to impress girls..... im in a conversation its not nice to interrupt" then turn back to her and ignore him...

thas just a random thing i thought of but u get the drift. if you act too macho you look like a tool, if u can make a little joke and keepit cool or something then thats major points.
 

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pvf94 said:
a kid walks up sits next to me, and starts making fun of where I live. *I live in a mobile home =)* Than I cut into him,
You can't disarm them by arguing with them or threatning them but only by agreeing with them and fvcking with their minds.

Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.

If he doesn't move on after that, then you just grab the girl by the arm whisper that you got a secret to tell her and lead her to a more isolated place.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage said:
Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.
yea co sign thas probbaly the best thing 2 say
 

pvf94

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DJDamage said:
You can't disarm them by arguing with them or threatning them but only by agreeing with them and fvcking with their minds.

Him: Haha you live in a mobile home
You: Yeah I do its awesome, you should come by sometimes to see it.

If he doesn't move on after that, then you just grab the girl by the arm whisper that you got a secret to tell her and lead her to a more isolated place.

I like, anything else gentleman?
 
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