"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool?

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How do you deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool? The reason I ask is because I've been in a situation, where there were like 30 girls (sorority girls) and only 5 dudes. I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chancer said:
I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
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LOL! Thats good experience there man, Learn to relax around all those girls and after a while, Talking to one girl or two will feel like a breeze. Just try to relax and smile at all of them. Sorority girls = :up: One of my favorite songs is "Ima Flirt" By R.Kelly, T.I and T-Pain. Thats what its all about.. Flirt Flirt Flirt.
 
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The problem with being outnumbered by women is that without enough testosterone in the room it's sometimes tough to have a balanced interaction. I noticed this when having dinner awhile back with one other guy and like 4 chicks.....inevitably the convo at times became monopolized by "chick talk" and us guys either had to sit through it for a few minutes or interject and send it in another direction. Too much work.
 
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chancer said:
How do you deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool? The reason I ask is because I've been in a situation, where there were like 30 girls (sorority girls) and only 5 dudes. I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
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Ignore them initially. Then pull one off to the side that you're really interested in later on.
 
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