"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool?

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How do you deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool? The reason I ask is because I've been in a situation, where there were like 30 girls (sorority girls) and only 5 dudes. I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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chancer said:
I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
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LOL! Thats good experience there man, Learn to relax around all those girls and after a while, Talking to one girl or two will feel like a breeze. Just try to relax and smile at all of them. Sorority girls = :up: One of my favorite songs is "Ima Flirt" By R.Kelly, T.I and T-Pain. Thats what its all about.. Flirt Flirt Flirt.
 
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The problem with being outnumbered by women is that without enough testosterone in the room it's sometimes tough to have a balanced interaction. I noticed this when having dinner awhile back with one other guy and like 4 chicks.....inevitably the convo at times became monopolized by "chick talk" and us guys either had to sit through it for a few minutes or interject and send it in another direction. Too much work.
 
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chancer said:
How do you deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool? The reason I ask is because I've been in a situation, where there were like 30 girls (sorority girls) and only 5 dudes. I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
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Ignore them initially. Then pull one off to the side that you're really interested in later on.
 
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