"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool?

chancer

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How do you deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool? The reason I ask is because I've been in a situation, where there were like 30 girls (sorority girls) and only 5 dudes. I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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chancer said:
I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
LOL! Thats good experience there man, Learn to relax around all those girls and after a while, Talking to one girl or two will feel like a breeze. Just try to relax and smile at all of them. Sorority girls = :up: One of my favorite songs is "Ima Flirt" By R.Kelly, T.I and T-Pain. Thats what its all about.. Flirt Flirt Flirt.
 

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The problem with being outnumbered by women is that without enough testosterone in the room it's sometimes tough to have a balanced interaction. I noticed this when having dinner awhile back with one other guy and like 4 chicks.....inevitably the convo at times became monopolized by "chick talk" and us guys either had to sit through it for a few minutes or interject and send it in another direction. Too much work.
 

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chancer said:
How do you deal with flocks of girls and maintain your cool? The reason I ask is because I've been in a situation, where there were like 30 girls (sorority girls) and only 5 dudes. I just didn't expect to see so many girls and just couldn't relax.
Ignore them initially. Then pull one off to the side that you're really interested in later on.
 
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